I've chatted to many Pinas and my sister suggested I just go for nice plain girl.
I tried to contact her again but she didn't come back online which seemed kinda strange.
I don't know exactly what happened but they got a call a few months prior to him dying and I guess they must have realized he hadn't long to live. I've visited the Philippines with my family, on my own,with my own family now. I am of Filipino background, but I don't have those attachments to the PI like some of kids I grew up with did or their parents do.
We got the bad news one evening and the boys drove to Queensland for the funeral some time after that. My parents and my aunts and uncles, when they came to Canada, they lived like Canadians.
And, if you are gullible enough to send, they will take it and then go have sex with some pinoy, while you sit there like a fool. Quite often, they are scamming multiple guys at one time---a good way to get money without breaking a fingernail, and keep their meth (shabu) addiction going...
Although, some of the language used here, I find extremely disappointing, I have my guard up with people in the Philippines constantly.
When in the Philippines visiting in 2012, I don't think I have been asked for more money, tips and insistence on this is how things are done here, type of deals.